"Youll notice that the 'side bar' has a name that is posted just above it. It called'Latest Activity'. This describes its purpose. Its shows all activity on the site, except messages sent to friends, and chat rooms. I know, you…"
"And just so you will quit accusing others of posting in sidebar.....Everything Anyone posts anywhere, except messages, is posted in sidebar as it is posted elsewhere. as far as I know there is no way to stop sidebar posting."