RULE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! - PeacePink consensus re online perps

[Bethany]

     One of the number one things that entertain perps is when you give them attention.  They WILL NEVER GO AWAY, so long as you feed them with your anger and outrage.  It drains GTIs' energy, and entertains the perps and all their friends who read their comments.

     So, if you know the PP member is a perp, do as you do with your personal perps - GIVE THEM NOTHING, EVER!

     I propose that once a perp has been identified, one of the PP respected regulars (Sue, God's Grace, JustMeKaren, etc) call for a freeze out of the perp.  If we can't report them to the adm and get them kicked off, then carry on conversations around their comments, as though they were not there.

     It is the quickest way to eliminate a perp from PP.  They will either end up making a comment that WILL get them kicked off by the adm, or they will just dry up from lack of responses from GTIs.

[Carl]

For sure!... ;)

[ms. freebird81]

Agree.

[Sally]

Good call Bonnie. The only thing is how do we really know someone is a perp for sure?

[Bonnie]

Let's say seeing someone was a fairly recent new member on PP and offering for everyone to move in with him. Being on PP constantly while professing to be a farmer. Saying they were initially a member while living one place then getting caught in a lie when confronted with living in a new location. I would think once you sign up for PP your not reconsidered new to it just because you moved. When ever Hitler, the Holocaust and Jewish people were mentioned by this one jerk he really pissed me off and my 6th sense started kicking in. I guess Sue, just think outside the box sometimes.

[Sally]

I just wanted to add to your good advice Bonnie that it extends to all your perps. Try not to give your perps the attention they crave. They want you angry, talking to them and focusing on them. Believe me l know its hard not to get angry and hit out at them. Better to focus on the pain, sadness, anger and heal it internally than give them the attention they desire. And lm referring to perps in your mind, on the streets...all perps and tech.

[hassanmcv]

But get back to the topic:

"... carry on conversations around their comments, as though they were not there...They will either end up making a comment that will get them kicked off by the adm, or they will just dry up from lack of responses from GTIs."

Wise statement, Bonnie, so please practice what you preach. 

Peacepink is the name of a kind of Pink Color Rose. It means: Peace and Love. We share Peace, Love and Care.

  

[Sally]

Bonnie l guess the thing is l didnt write him off as a perp.....just as someone with very different ideas. He explained that when he joined pp 2yrs ago he lived in one place, then he moved and didnt update his profile. He did say he didnt agree with what Hitler did but was speaking of it from an economical point of view. Naturally we get pissed when anyone says anything pro-hitler....l agree but he was factual and unemotional about it because he was focused on what hitler did for germanys economy. Yes l find him cold....but doesnt mean hes a perp.

[hassanmcv]

Sue said:"Good call Bonnie. The only thing is how do we really know someone is a perp for sure?"

Good question, Sue but I prefer practise what Bonnie preaches for a lot of reasons you know already.

[hassanmcv]

:)

[Sally]

Sorry Bethany....duh! I meant you when l said Bonnie. Im getting you two confused.