As I said I've lived in this neighborhood all my life (I'm 24)
Today I went out to do errands. There were groups and individuals that were stalking. They never approach you, never start a conversation with you -- they just follow you around, watch you and think of you. It's really disturbing. Additionally, there are dozens of people around that watch what is happening. They look at the stalkers and show sympathy and concern for the people that are being stalked. Non-Verbal Communication takes up 80% of our communication (Body language, expressions, clothing, cars you drive, etc.) Stalkers are rather easy to identify. Especially if they start using manipulative language. You can easily tell if someone is manipulative or stalking when you have a stalker and a normal person standing side by side.
I can't say how much I appreciate the innocent, hard working people that don't engage in stalking or manipulation! Who would have thought how precious a normal, polite, compassionate, sensible, kind person could be! They are like angels while living in purgatory. These days make me appreciate the old days when I wasn't being stalked. These days make me appreciate areas and locations where other normal people are.
I have been working alone for quite some time, and haven't had time to see or meet new friends; so I'm actually a vulnerable target. Because stalkers and harassers always make sure their targets are isolated, with minimal contact or support or communication with other people or organizations. But by being around other innocent and normal people, its very easy to regain your strength and sanity.
Even right now, I'm pretty sure someone is watching or thinking of me. Because usually I have a very logical and easy-following thought process. And when they stalk me, its disruptive. It isn't torture. It is just stalking. People don't use any electronic weapons on me that I know of. I feel normal and happy most of the time!
Part of it, I suppose, is just accepting that these stalkers haven't been caught yet. And the way I found to deal with it,is to completely ignore them. Because when someone stalks you, they put all their energy and time and effort into following you and watching you. But they are human too. So if you have someone stalking you and you just ignore them, they are left, ignored, isolated, and just being a dumb, boring, unproductive, useless stalker! The best way to fight these stalkers is to let them isolate and degrade theirselves! They are nothing but criminals. And what usually happens to criminals? The graveyard or jail. So that is their destiny they make, unless they choose to stop and redo their wrongs.
It's very interesting because my professional life is affected, however while working for security and the police force, there are ample resources, teamwork, networks, methods of communicating incidences, and the ability to expose these criminals for what they are. If people started stalking a security guard, the security guard would be documenting it in their reports. These people are bound to fail in the long run.
Anyways, I'm a very optimistic person, and I'm going to continually work on maintaining my health, my positivity, and a supporting social and professional network. And I shall continue to have liasons with the federal and municipal police.
Cooperation with police is critical, in my opinion, in any case. Discrimination, uncooperation, reputation, corruption, stereotyping are all examples of things that have gotten in the way between communication what is happening in a community and the criminal or dangerous acitivties that go on. To blame the police or blame the government is to blame an organization that protects us from the crimes that happen around us. There are corrupt police officers. But not all are corrupt. They are just like regular people. Some people are trustworthy, hard working, compassionate, innocent and good -- some police are the same way. Some people/police are corrupt. There is no reason to discriminate or turn against services that are there to help us. As Dr. Phil said in one episode of stalking "There is a system in place for a reason -- Use it!"
Until nextime. God bless,
Namo Buddhaya, Namo Dharmaya, Namo Sanghaya,
May you seek refuge wherever you find peace.
-David
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