I must be in one of my pissed off moods, of course I've been pissed off more or less for the past 10 years since this began. My alternative is to give in and respond emotionally to each and every poke and jab thrown my way, like the opinions of malicious strangers should somehow be valid criticism or matter.
I STEADFASTLY REFUSE to respond in any way, verbal/mentally/emotionally/otherwise, to tactics being used against me. As for my life (past and present), it is none of anyone's business or concern. I will not open the door and respond, which in effect is giving some stranger my permission to critique my behavior and spiritual soul. You answer ONLY to you, not another breathing human being, no matter what their motives.
Shut the door on tactics directed at making you feel bad or guilty. It's bad enough to be stalked, mobbed, harassed, and intimidated every day by strangers. You don't need to start ripping yourself apart and destroy what trust and strength you have in yourself.
Change your chin of glass to one of steel, and let the crap run off w/o sticking. Because we are isolated and perps are practically the only people in our lives does not mean they are our friends and have good motives in mind when they convey their messages. (("stockholm syndrome"))
Pick up your baseball bat and don your helmet. Fight for yourself, and focus on what you can do to put a stop to this. Take action, any positive action! Don't talk to your perps, don't listen to your perps, don't respond in any way because it may look like a sheep, but it's really a wolf hiding under a sheepskin waiting to eat you alive.
They ONLY have power over you if you GIVE IT TO THEM! Any other "control & power" is an illusion.
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